In this blog post we discuss how to find the tall man of your dreams.
Perhaps you want to find that tall single man because you are tall yourself and want to be able to wear high heels when your on a night out and still be shorter.
Or perhaps you like the sense of security that comes with dating a tall man.
Or is it simply that tall men come across strong and powerful to you.
There could be any number of reasons, but now you have decided that’s what you want how do you go about finding them?
But before we look at how to go about finding a tall man.
Could it actually be you and your mindset that is holding you back?
Could it be your mindset that has stopped you finding a tall single man, rather than not looking in the right place?
So let’s take a look at some of the things you could be doing wrong that is preventing you from finding love.
Understand yourself
Understanding yourself is a really great exercise.
Remember all those faults you have, your eventual partner is going to have to accept and live with.
Have you ever thought about what they are? Would you be willing to put up with them yourself?
Really knowing yourself will make you much more ready to meet someone else.
Though personal growth is a lifelong process, if you’re struggling to figure out who you are, it’ll be much more difficult to figure out what you want in a relationship.
Be aware of your flaws and how you might address them when you meet someone.
Will you just try and dampen them? Or are you willing to try and give them up for good?
You might, for example, be very short tempered, perhaps your cure when you meet someone might be to walk out the room when you feel a hot rage coming on?
Don’t expect perfection
The media these days really try to sell us the “perfect” person.
But in reality, they don’t exist.
Admit it, you’re not perfect. No one is.
If you are looking for perfection you will never find him.
Does it matter if he is an inch shorter than you would ideally like him to be?
Understand what types of annoying habits rile you so much they’re a deal-breaker and be upfront about those, as well as those you don’t think of as a big deal.
If you can’t stand a forgetful man, you may have to bend on something else to find one who never forgets an anniversary or errand.
Just think the guy you turn away, for one small imperfection, might tick all the other boxes!
Should you have turned him down? Will you regret it afterwards?
Be happy being alone
Make sure you are content with your own company before looking to share it with someone else.
If you can spend time alone, it will mean that when you find someone to share your life with, you will quickly realise if it’s for you or not.
You should have enough meaning in your own life — through your friendships, work, and outside interests — to make you a person who is happy on her own but ready for commitment.
To be ready for that new guy in your life, make some “alone time”
If you spend all of your free time with friends or family, you are much more likely to be co-dependent.
There is also an added benefit to spending time alone.
You will also be a more fun person to meet because you’ll be excited to talk about all the things that matter to you
Love yourself
To find someone who loves you, you have to love who you are!
This doesn’t mean that you have to completely love every part of yourself, but that you are confident and happy in who you are.
Being aware of your flaws is part of loving yourself, and it will make you a much more grounded person in a relationship.
Never brag about who you are and what you can offer.
Just know that you are a worthwhile person deep down
Don’t think that finding the man of your dreams will make you love yourself, it won’t.
You need to build self-confidence yourself.
But I can assure it, loving yourself will make all relationships much easier.
So now you have all that sorted, let’s get back to finding the man of your dreams.
So what can you do now to find the tall man of your dreams?
Take up a hobby or something you are very passionate about
If you take up a hobby, you may well meet someone there who is also into that hobby.
And the best thing is that you have common ground.
Something you already know you can talk to each other about.
Visit places where men you are interested in may be
Along the same lines as the point above.
You cannot sit at home and expect to meet the man of your dreams.
Physically going to places where men will be will greatly increase your chance.
Sobbing your heart out in front of Bridget Jones on the sofa might be a good night it, but it definitely won’t help!
If you want a man that cares about the community, go volunteer for a charity organization.
If you want a man that is an animal lover, visit a dog park or animal shelter.
If you are interested in a man of a certain religion, visit a church, mosque, or temple that is in line with your beliefs.
If you are into art, visit art galleries and art shows.
If you have a specific man in mind, go places where you know he likes to hang out.
Tell as many friends and family as you can that you are looking for love.
Tell friends and family that you are looking for love and ask them to share the news.
This means you get a really large reach with your message.
Imagine you tell 40 people and they all manage to tell 50 people. That means 2,000 people know about your quest for love.
That’s even without thinking about the second 50 people talking to their friends and family.
Potentially the news could spread far and wide.
If your friends know of someone, ask them to introduce you to the person in a group setting.
A group dinner or a group activity can help you get a feel for the person.
If you are feeling bold, have your friends set you up on a blind date.
Be adventurous and do something out of the norm
For example, you might go to a gym near work but not your local gym.
Why not one-weekend venture to the local gym, the man of your dreams might be waiting inside?
Or you might always go to your local coffee shop for a coffee at the weekend, why not go to the next towns coffee shop instead.
Trying to meet and mix with as many new faces as possible might just help you.
And finally, what about joining a dating site (yes we have said it!)
Are you totally new to internet dating?
If you are read on, if not skip to the next section.
There is nothing Taboo now about joining a dating site.
If you are trying to find the tall man of your dreams, they can really help. Why? Well because you can use the power search engines to filter on the tall men!
You see in the search functions on most sites (like match.com for example), you can filter your potential matches on height.
Bingo there you have it a list of tall single available men to contact.
Perhaps you have tried and not succeeded at internet dating?
Well if that’s the case perhaps you didn’t set yourself up to succeed.
Maybe your photo wasn’t the best, you can read or post on how to do it right here.
Or perhaps you didn’t update your profile regularly enough, you can read about that here.
There could have been issues with your profile. Did you know you can get a firm to take a look at it for you? They are called Fix my profile.
Perhaps you joined the wrong dating site?
Perhaps you didn’t find the tall man of your dreams because you didn’t join the right internet dating site?
There are so many to choose from.
You could join a mainstream site and filter on height, or you could join a niche site like ours.
Tallsingles.co.uk, is we think the perfect site for anyone looking to date someone tall.
We pride ourselves on making sure that the single people on our site are tall, that’s men and women over 5’5″.
Not only that, we have a great tall community on our Facebook page and in our Facebook group.
Conclusion
We hope you have discovered some things you might be able to do in order to find the tall man of your dreams.
Some you may have known already, some maybe you didn’t.
Let us know how you get on by leaving a comment in the section below.