What I want to know is “Will other singles like me on tallsingles.co.uk?” (this is a common question we hear!)
The simple answer is you won’t know until you join! It’s as simple as that. But you can help yourself, you need to give yourself every possible chance to get noticed on tallsingles.co.uk.
There is someone out there for everyone.
Here are our top tips for making sure that you get seen and arrange a date on tallsingles.co.uk
1. Upload good photos
Ok we are going to be truthful here, the first impression someone will have of you on a dating site is either:
a) your photo (when searching online) or
b) your photo and the subject line of your message (if you send them a message)
See the one common theme here? It’s your photo.
The simplest advice about your photos is:
- Make it recent
- Make it clear
- Your main picture has to be of you looking straight forward.
- Make sure you smile and look happy in the photo
- Make sure it’s a good likeness.
- No nudity
You can read more about profile photo’s in these blog posts:
What makes a bad profile photo?
What makes a good profile photo?
What additional photos should you upload to your profile?
2. Take time to complete your profile
Again more to come on this later but you need to make sure you take time to complete your profile.Why?
Why? Well, it’s what our computer programme uses to select you in search results, plus it tells your potential partner what your likes and interests are!
A first section is a number of multiple choice questions, the answers of which help our computer decide on how to display you in the results of a search.For
For example, if you select “movies” as one of your interests, then if someone runs a search and is looking for someone who enjoys “movies”, it means you may come up in those results as you are relevant to that search.
When completing this section you need to make sure you select the correct boxes so you get matched with the right person.
The second section is some free format questions where you can talk about yourself and what you are looking for in your ideal partner. Look out for our blog post on how to complete this. But for now, make it clear, make it interesting and make it relevant.
3. Log on often
Members will look at how frequent you are logging onto the site as it gives an indication as to how serious you are. Someone logging on three times a week is much more serious about dating than someone who is logging in once a month.
4. Don’t be frightened to contact other members
Yes, why don’t you make the make the first move (and yes I am talking to women here too!). If you see someone you like why don’t you send them a wink to let them know you are interested (which you can do with free membership). You can see how they respond.
All of the methods above will try and establish if someone will contact you before you pay your membership.
However, you are not really going to know until you join up. When you join up, you can message members. And that gets you to step 5:
5. Message a member and get a response.
If you message someone with the right email subject, to the right person and they like your photo and profile you WILL get a response.
We will be posting on here the right way to message someone online from how to write the message subject line to the first killer paragraph. This along with the 4 points mentioned above should get you a date!
And remember:
6. Thousands of members are joining every week
So no one messaged you back this week, don’t worry there are a thousand more you can message next week. If dating is a numbers game we have it covered.We have literally thousands of members joining every week, so if no-one messages you this week, there will be 1,000’s of different people to message next week.
We have literally thousands of members joining every week, so if no-one messages you this week, there will be 1,000’s of different people to message next week.
So that’s our roundup
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So will other singles like me on Tallsingles.co.uk? You will only know if you Join!
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